hello i met a girl through a game which we both played and we talked to each other alot and pretty much spend time together all the time in that game. and then we are texting each other and calling each other everyday. we also send picutures and talk about our personal lifes. sharing our family personal life etc etc. we never miss a day without calling or texting. we been like that for 2 months. She told me she love me and want to visit me to my place but is still not sure. i know i love her also. but the problem is we are like sooo far away from each other. you will need a plane to meet. i would love to meet her as soon as well because i really like her so much. we always tell how much we love each other. but these past few days i am being sad and seem to think a lot about her. and to think that the earliest time we can meet each other is at least 1 year and it is not even sure. but she told me when she finish her school she would def want to be with me. and i feel the same way. my question is do these kind of relationship work? what can i do to feel less lonely considering we will be away and suffer for a long time? i know i am happy all the time when i talk or text to her but sometimes it just feel it isnt enough and you really want to be with her but you cant.? less

I am young and so is my relationship. We are both 20 years old, typical high school sweethearts who stupidly went to college together. Unfortunately, plans changed and in less than a week he will be moving from New England to the other side of the country in Washington state. No person has ever made me feel as happy as him, not even close. When we are together I can be completely be myself. I love him more than I ever believed was possible. I realize I am inexperienced and so young, but when we fight or are apart it is like my world is falling apart (sorry if I am being a bit melodramatic). The feelings I get when he makes me smile are so perfect, theyre nearly indescribable. However, he is moving indefinitely, its an apprenticeship that will last about four years but he may or may not continue living there once its over. I do not want to lose him, but I was offered an internship which will skyrocket my future career during the summers so we will only be able to see each other a few weeks every year. Him and I have only been dating for 3 years and things definitely haven't been perfect. We fight sometimes, we make mistakes, and we become jealous. I know I love him but this just seems impossible. Im 20 years old and live at college, I party on the weekends, and I have insecurities. But im willing to stay in most nights to skype, to fall asleep on the phone every evening, to send a "Goodmorning" text each day. I am just terrified that it won't be enough. I don't want to lose him again, especially in a blow out fight 3000 miles apart. Im scared.. I told him that I didnt believe a long distance relationship like this could survive, but all that did was cause him pain. How could we last so long so far apart though? My friends and family laughed when they found out he was moving. They told me he will be back in a month and its ridiculous to think he could last much longer than that without me. But I think they are wrong. He has family members who love him that live in Washington, along with a well paying job. He hates his father here and he has an enormous debt to pay, I would be the only reason to stay and I can't let him do that. Is there any way to survive a relationship situation like this? Can anyone give me advice? Thanks Amanda less

I've just read through all of these posts for an interesting reason. I had a ten-year (in person) relationship with a man I truly loved. A year ago he informed me that he had rekindled a relationship with a woman from his past (like 40 years in his past) who lives 1300 miles away. I didn't know about it until January, 2012, but it was going on all throughout 2011. They re-met when he was golfing in her state in January, 2011. In reconstructing all of this, I found that they saw each other throughout 2011 about 4 or 5 times, mostly by meeting in different cities, plus she came up here once (December, 2011). However, in 2012, they've seen each other only once. He told me that she's having issues with her adult son who lives with her and that's why she hasn't come up here to visit. Well, I find it hard to believe that those problems didn't also exist only the year before! I had a confrontation with him just before New Year's Eve, and he admitted that he doesn't know where it's going. There is no plan to move, either of them. And here are the ages: he is 66, she is 60, I am 58. I can't believe he is wasting this time. He is very attractive for his age; she's not bad looking either, but PLEASE ... there's no time to waste on an LDR at that stage! I was in an LDR when in my 30's ... the first year we visited each other a lot ... it waned in the second year ... then it broke off. This story about her son sounds like an excuse, and I told him so. Acegirl is RIGHT ON! less

Yes, now I am. Last January, not so much. No matter what happens, I would bet anything that he wastes time waiting for this woman and nothing further really happens of significance. Their fun and games (and attraction) occurred throughout 2011, when I didn't know it was happening. Sure, they may visit once or twice a year, text, and talk on the phone, but I call that "Imitation of Life". He knows it, and he knows that I am right. Otherwise, I do not plan to waste much more time on him. She was not up here to nurse him through his heart attack and other issues over the past 12 years, and if it happened again, I doubt she would care to come up here to be with him. He's being a complete fool, but obviously he does not care whom he hurts in the meantime. It might be different if she was living nearby, but the LDR aspect is probably what will break this thing up. Plus I figure that if he loved her so much, he would have stayed with her in the first place and not dumped her to marry his ex-wife ... he even had the nerve to invite her to his wedding! (the ex-wife told me that) So there are basically two issues going on here that are easily Googled: "Rekindling an old flame" and "long distance relationships". Double whammy! less

That is NOT what the writer was saying at all in her article. She is saying that no one should put themselves through the pain and misery of a LDR if it's going to be long distance for more than several months. This is understandable and is her opinion. However, I agree with others that lasting LDR depends on the people involved and every circumstance/situation is different and unique. Also, obviously someone has to move if the couple decided to build a home and raise a family together, but the author was not saying any of that in her article. I've been in a LDR for 5 years now (because of school), and I can admit that at times it does feel miserable and painful and although I may be missing out on other opportunities, it's not worth giving up on the opportunity I already have. I'm happy with my partner and he's happy with me. I know that it just works out for some and not for others based on individual needs. I am definitely a little nervous for the day we move back into the same city and eventually together because I know it will be a big adjustment, but like another reader mentioned: relationships in general, whether they're long-distance or not, have the potential to end and it takes that maturity, trust, communication, and reflection on both ends to decide whether the relationship can be healthy and everlasting. Good article though to provoke input. less

Having just ended a 3year LDR, I can resonate with most of the feelings expressed here. We compromised on our jobs and moved closer twice. Originally it was a 13hr drive, then 6hr, then 1 hr. Unfortunately it went back up, 3hr, and we were looking at 12hr come summer. I agree with the idea of having a plan, but it is important to have a plan that accounts for more than just the Long Distance part of the relationship. What are your professional goals? Which will you choose, work or relationship? Do you want to get married? How soon do you want children if ever? LDR is like a fairy tale to a degree, you plan out your visits, clear your schedules and spend time together free of distraction. (After all you only get to see each other so often). All the while avoiding the difficult questions since it would spoil the weekend. Figure out the answers to the bigger questions early on in a LDR. Then at least you will know if it is worthwhile to move closer. In my case we both were unwilling to compromise on our careers. And after 3 years of LDR the dim prospect of another year apart was none too attractive. No animosity, just disappointment. Needless to say, I will not be seeking out another LDR. less

I feel so much guilt over moving away. I didn't have to, but I did. I tried an LDR when I was too young and I grew into a different person. Our relationship became rocky. He moved for school the first time around. I moved for my career the second time around. Our paths are leading us further apart now that he got hired in another state. He was hoping I'd join him if my plans for my career didn't work out, but it's not that simple. My career isn't just a job for me. I want to be surrounded by it and create from it. This is where I have to be if I have any chance at all. We broke up, but now he says that he doesn't have to have stay with the job for good. It's like he's in the bargaining stage if grief. He's no closer to a real plan to be together than I am. It's a delusion. A fantasy. I want someone to hold hands with, to watch TV with, to hug whenever I need one, to wake me up from my nightmares and tell me everything is fine, to have dumb conversations with whenever I want, to laugh over silly things that happen at any given moment. I want to say I love you and not have to say goodbye afterwards. I want a partner. Not a cellphone. Is that so superficial? less

Long distance relationships are not easy; in fact, they can be quite difficult at times. I am currently in one. There are both good and bad things about being in a LDR! Yes, you cannot see one another on a daily basis, and yes you cannot physically be with them as much as you probably would like...but, you can grow emotionally stronger than most couples can that see each other day to day. You also know how to be independent as a person, whereas most other couples become co-dependent and start to become one person; they are not individuals anymore. It's important to still have your individuality as a person while still in a relationship! I have learned so much about my boyfriend by being long distance because we thrive off of communication, honesty, and trust. I miss him, and I probably will only see him at most 3-4 times a year...an expensive plane ticket away. But I would rather be talking to him and loving him from a far than broken up, wishing I had him there for me to talk to. Most couples that see each other day to day do not always know how to make conversation or have heart-to-hearts... they are more connected by physical contact. This can become a problem as you get older and stay together. But with an LDR, you cherish every moment you are privileged to see this person and it just makes everything a lot more special. You have an emotional bond with this person that can't compare to any couple that sees each other everyday; it allows you to not take each other for granted. I believe LDR's can work!! YES they can be hard, but you have to have an unconditional amount of trust and love for this person. Be optimistic and know that one day you can see them again! You will miss the physical aspect of the relationship when you are apart, but your emotional connection is unlike most relationships and it truly can work if you just trust the other person entirely! less

Me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 months and have had no arguments that faded us at all, we barely argue and when we do its on the phone so we can hear how upset we make eachother. Shes a very sensitive girl but i can handle her and I seriously love her so so much. I have a plan to find a place here, she lives in Mesquite NV so were like 3000 miles apart because i live in Ohio. My plan is to get a place here because she hates her town, the only family she has is her grandma and Im determined to give her a new loving family which is mine. Im currently 18 and graduated, not going to college, im working for my step dad which is really benificial, she works at a golf course close to her house. We have not seen eachother in person yet, my family is going to vegas for a week in april and shes coming here and staying for the week they are gone. (They are aware) we survivr on a couple pictures of ourselves every day, talk on the phone a couple times during the day then all night till we go to sleep, we text constantly non stop. Phone sex everyother night, the biggest issue ive had was her ex.. she was in a relationship with him for three years. I recently found out she had still been with him for the first month we started dating but her reason eas she didnt know how to end it and they never saw eachother nor kept in touch barely at all. I know she loves me and she knows i love her, were definitely not.bored with eachother. We plan t finally move in with eachother in less than 4 months. LDR can work, we wont fade one bit i promise. This page is BS. Btw shes 19 she'll be 20 in july.. ill still be 18. My parents tell me all the time shes prolly tslkin to other guys but i know thats physicaly impossible and i talk to her grandma sometimes and her grandma loves.me, tells me the complete truth. Evrrything is great, ive never been happier, Shes my world and im hers. Believe it or not, idc. LDR WORK if you play your cards right. Sorry bout the bad grammar.. ifs hard staying precise with a touchscreen phone. less

I myself have been in an LDR for about 7 months due to my girlfriend's going to college. she's 19 an I'm 18, and we've been together for 2 and a half years. we were extremely close when she lived in town, spending most of our available time together. lately, however, I've been regretting keeping the relationship going due to my personal waning desire to talk to her, be around her when she is home, etc. I would attribute it to several things; most of the blame I set on myself for allowing her to take over my life. her clinging to my attention every waking hour and my growing lack of interest in her is really taking a toll on me emotionally, for I feel I have done the most wrong in the relationship, and thus have set myself up for a barrage of hatred, sadness, or whatever this girl would decide to lay on me. what really doesn't help my situation is that there is an extremely attractive girl - physically, intelligibly, and musically - who has let me know of her attraction towards me. I would hate to rip up my girlfriend's life for a perceptively shallow move solely for my personal interest, but I am feeling trapped, miserable, and scared of what it would mean for everything I have experienced for the past two and a half years. I apologize for talking at a random blog like this, but I would (albeit not shamelessly) request any and all advice anyone would have for me. thank you less

I'm 15, I'm not aloud to date till I'm 16, and I chose not to date until I'm 16, My birthday is at the end of march, There is a guy, I see him 4 times a month with stake activities for church he lives an hour away, we both like each other- only contact: facebook instant messenger,I been to a couple of his games with his parents, and his other friends on the girls basketball team. I like him, I might even Love him, but its hard, I get jealous, but I keep the jealousy to myself, I feel like crap when im not with him, i miss him alot, with my parents fighting 24'7, and stress with school its way to much to handle, I get easily hut, I am an Aries if you know anything about them than that's me, I keep it bottled up. Sometimes im scared if Ill burst someday, my friends have no idea that anything is wrong which makes me angry at them and I tend to lash out on them, and I feel awful about it. But not seeing him makes it harder. But when I do talk to him or when Im with him he makes everything better he dosent know about my problems but he knows something is up- But he dosnt ask which makes me love him more because he knows that i dont want to talk about it, We make each other happy.I'm just wondering if it will get better when im 16, when we are aloud to date, next year when he graduates he is going on his mission for two years its supper hard I believe that with our age and how young we are that it is ridiculous to say That I love him, and I don't use that word loosely, but I feel its much more than that we are both maturer than others our age--- Help less

Well. I'm in a LDR with a girl who lives like 8880 miles away from me. I know it's a lot but to be honest this is my first relationship when I'm truly happy and this is the first girl I truly love. I didn't believe in that kind of relationship until I met her. This gorgeous girl who makes my heart beat faster, who makes me smile whenever I'm talking with her or just thinking about her. Everything changed when I met her, literally everything. None of us did plan this, nor me nor her... it just happened. From being just friends we had become to be something more than that. I really do love her and I'm wishing to be right beside her, but for now... it's so freaking hard to do so. I know that I will visit her, I just know because I'm willing to do everything to be able to meet with her. But of course nothing's perfect in that kind of relationship. We have more reasons to break up, and more reasons to be mad at each other even because of the little things. To be honest I'm the one who is hurt the most because it seems like she's doing just fine when I'm not around. She's always trying to make me jealous, and I don't know why since I'm a person who gives her a lot of attention. More attention than she's giving me. She says that she's not fit into relationships and I can tell this but I think loving her means also that I need to bear with things like this. What hurts the most is that we barely talk since the time difference between us and because of her activities in school. But even when we do talk she's sometimes mad at something which bother me to be able to talk to her since she's so indifferent to everything. She's not the bad girl though, she has some problems and I totally understand this, but she can't just keep pushing me away because of her mood swings. I'm just staying positive and I'm trying to do everything to be able to meet with her. I don't want to lose her until I meet her. I don't want to break things earlier before our first meeting, I want to make sure that this what we have were worth fighting for. less

my LDR lasted for one and a half year. I met him when I worked in NY during the summer. it was two years ago. now I am back in my own country which is 8000 miles away. We both fallen for each other since we first met. but now everything is different after being in a LDR for a year and a half. I went back to my country after the first summer and I went back to visit him during Christmas and the second summer. we both know we love each other but the distance between us wore us thin.we both missed each other so much when we were apart which makes us lonely and miserable. when I was back in NY last summer we got into a big fight, and we stopped talking to each other since I went back to my country in last September. we started to talking to each other last month.he apologized for cutting me off because of what I did during last summer and told me he's still in love with me. I know I still love him and he is the person I can talk to when I feel sad and I would able to talk about everything with. but I also figured out we are not good Ng anywhere.neither of us have talked bout moving.I did think about it, but moving to 8000miles away is really not easy. now we both tell ourselves we are best friends and stay talking to each other daily. I can really use someones advice.. less

I have been in a LDR for 3.5 years with a gentleman I have known for a long time, in an earlier life when we were married to other people. We live about 800 miles apart. We communicate daily and see one another every other weekend when we do not have custody of our children. So far so good. I am madly in love and he professes same. Problem is, we are at different life stages and there is no end-game, or plan in place. My youngest of 4 daughters is off to college next year. My beau's youngest does not graduate for 6 more years. I would be open to moving to his zip code in the next year or so, but he is reluctant to make that plan for several reasons that he has laid out. Instead, he proposes that we "possibly" share a rental in an alternate, closer city within driving distance and live together alternate weeks, maybe in a year or two. I am not sure that would be a positive move for me. While it might be one step closer to creating a life together, it also might be one one huge step towards More Vulnerability where I feel like I have all the skin in the game. I love this man dearly and would love to be with him. He professes the same, but our definition of "together," seems to diverge widely. Any scripting suggestions for the "What's our plan?" chat? I am at a turning point where the excitement of our relationship is starting to be eclipsed by immense fear. Help. Feedback welcome. less

I have been in a LDR for close to six years, jobs, children, religious beliefs and other things have seemed to keep us from making it into one of us making a final move to be together. He travels over four hundred miles on his vacation times throughout the year, or I go and stay with him for a month or two. Now the kids are off to college, we are empty nesters, but I don't want to live in his state, he wants to move here but always makes excuses about the job he has, even though he is eligible for retirement. I really think if I had it to do over again, I would run and run hard from this type of relationship. I should have learned it from a failed marriage, same situation, married moved overseas had children, moved back to America, he was from a foreign country and kept traveling back and forth maybe once a year for a month and then the excuses for him not coming each year started and eventually the last time he came it was like I felt as if I was sleeping with someone that was a stranger to me. After10 years of stupidity on both our parts, I asked for a divorce. Trouble is I am repeating the same stupidity again. Free me from this nightmare, can't wake up!!!! less

So, I was introduced to this girl from an university friend because we are doing the same course and we were born in the same country and city. Now we are one of the best friends you can see around, meeting up everytime we have a break and on weekends to go to the air show or ice skating. Doing this, I just became so close to her and me being the total idiot i am, fell in love not knowing that she was in a ldr with someone from the country that we were born in. When i found out, I was shocked and a bit depressed at the fact that she wanted to become so close to me when she had somebody waiting somewhere. When i asked her why she was doing this to me and her boyfriend she replied that it was just too hard seeing her bf through a computer screen when she can just meet up withsomeone from like 30 minutes away. After some more private talking we decided to just be friends until she works it out. Having many of my friends being in ldr and with many of them being so depressed, I dont know why they have to go through all this trouble and also hurt a third party. I really like her but what can i do. Theres a bastard on the other side of this difficult world whos unwilling to let go even though they wont see each other for 7 years unless one of them comes or goes during a holiday. in my opinion, if both of them cant keep each other happy, its just best to let the other guy, ldr or not. less

I'm in a long distance relationship and it works for me. I won't be able to even meet on a weekly basis for the next three years! It's been 6 months for now that I'm away and we are planning on getting married as soon as I get back to my country and to him. Since no body opposing this kind of relationship here on this site has any professional experience consulting and is simply talking about personal feelings and trying to convince everyone else it is NOT personal and it's true about everyone, I would say LDRs don't work for sex maniacs who don't see anything in a relationship but sex and physical contact and that's why they thing of this as a torture. Human beings and relationships are way more than physical contact and an LDR can actually help focusing on the "person" you are dating, not only the physical activities you engage in, and it helps learning about one another's personality. I actually came to this page by searching why does American TV insists that LDRs are not practical. Well, now I understand, the western media is trying so hard selling sex and when its couples are far away it can't, so it's best to oppose it! less

I'm here because I'm looking for things to ponder. What I should be inquiring about (in addition to the usual dating questions). I'm 40, he's 52. The relocation is a huge important part of before you start an LDR I hadn't considered (but perhaps because the economy sucks in Vegas and there's nothing holding me here)..... In August 2012 he called the business I was employed by at the time, for a quote... ..I'm glad when I first flew 7 states over to meet him, that I didn't get a hotel, I got to see him in his true environment -and with his profession, I didn't have him to myself at all -not even for an entire day! The same for my return visit almost 2 months ago.....reading all that I have on this page, I know I'm ready to move. I know I don't want to wait any longer on either let me move or set me free -even with me feeling like he's The One. Maybe if my office hadn't shut down I'd be willing to wait longer.... but in the end, since we're in the relationship, we get to decide how long we're willing to wait for someone to relocate. less

Ok , I have read nearly all of these posts , and for the first time since investigating all the pros and cons of my situation I have finally found some intelligent people to help me . A quick run down of my situation . Relationship 18 years , married 7 years , 2 children , girl 11 boy 8 . I am 47 years old , very fit for my age , I feel 27 and looks of a 37 year old . My wife 37 . My wife found her first love on face book , to cut a long story short , she slept with him behind my back for the last 2 months of last year . He lives 550 km away . They managed to travel backwards and forwards seeing each other when ever they could . I found all this out later . 3 days before Xmas , my wife says she wants a seperation , to work out her feelings . Usual excuses , not sure if I love you any more , not sure if I ever did , I need to find my happiness ect . We spent Xmas together with her family , near to where he lives , one day after Xmas the wife tells me to drive the children home so she can have time to think , I agreed . For the next 5 weeks she stayed at his house , she abandoned me the children , our family , she returned to the family home requesting a divorce . She says she is totally in love with this guy and wants to spend the rest of her life with him . Now here is where it gets complicated . He has 2 boys of his own to a previous marriage , he will not even entertain the thought of relocating , because I have my 2 children with me , I will not relocate either . So my wife in her infinite wisdom , wants to live in the family home for 1 week so she can be with the kids , we will live in seperated bed rooms of course . Then she wants to fly to his house for one week to be with him and his children . Before you say I am being stupid for agreeing to this , I have given it much thought , my wife and I are close friends , we never argue and we want to work this out . My questions are . Can this work ? Will her LDR stand the strain of her living with me ( I hope not ) Will he get jealous ? Will it all get to much for them ? I love my wife with all my heart and would have her back in an instant , I know this is all some sought of midlife crisis and I just want to be the one to pick up the pieces if this all turns out the way I hope , any suggestions , what do you all see happening , please advise ? less

When you are older and in a long distance relationship things can be complicated. Kids, careers are factors. One of the posters made an excellent point. You are not together to share in the daily stuff that traditional couples share. The fun times,boring times, stressful times, the I need to do things for my kids times, the job is taking me through changes times, the I'm sad and depressed times. The I'm made at the world times, I just saw the most beautiful thing in the word times,etc. You only get to share the best hour or three of yourself on FaceTime,Skype or the phone. You can be togethr 2 years, but physically for only 5 months. And if kids are involved you might be able to make that 2 months tops with just the two of you. But, you are in love. And the moment the miles (6k) are gone you want to marry. But, have the phone calls, and FaceTime sessions every day been enough? Are you going to jump into reality and have success? Maybe not? But, you only live one and if you are ok in the moment live it! If it doesn't work out you didn't lose that, right? Just try not to give up your life in the process. That is when it hurts. Move because you want to move, move because you have a job, or educational opportunity. If not..don't move without a commitment...marriage or engagement with marriage scheduled. What you sacrifice for a spouse is different that what you give up for a bf or gf. In my example I'm lonely but loved. Military or contractors significant others may understand me. The younger kids enjoy your STD and pregnancy free safe relationships, those in your mid 20s to 30s...make a commitment and move( childbearing years could be lost) but after 2 years tops of LDR. Us 40+ be serious or don't but be upfront about your intentions ( some might be interested in temporary serial monogamous relationship). But, try to be Happy!,,, life is too short not to try to reach for joy. Good luck, hope it works out for us all. less

well well I just ended a long distance love thing that lasted almost 3 years.. ..you cant help but fall in love..and it makes a mess inside of you .. its so hard so hard... somehow I doubted she ever cheated on me the girl was too much a cling on ..possesive and crazy about me to do that.. in fact I fear she might be one of those that never let me go..cos I try to leave her hummmmmmmm every year many times..she never let me go.. ..and did I want to? not really..we were..and are in love....but how about when you are gay..I am gay she was hetero but she fell for me hard and deep ..and she is so damn cute ....but ordinary ..so she bores me..its either sexting all the time or well there is not much to talk about.. ..then there is the fact she has no much much ..so cant call by cell .. once in while .. and well the gay fact ..she lives with her family..comun in mexico ..and well she wants them to know but cant tell until I move there.. so god forbid they see her talking to me..so no cam.. ..there fore I am bored and tired of typing love... I have tons of imagination so does she.. we can get damn excited....but well.. other than that .. I know I dont really want to move to mexico ever.. I could not keep lying to keep her.. she is so darn cute and hot and turns me on..but its too bad is far..cos what if I did go for her and then oh god I get bored ? I guess hurts me to say ..what I like is her looks... and the typing only gets old...so I left her..I am hurting.. its damn hard to be without her.. but since i cant see a future ..is not right for me to keep her.. ..point is.. its sucks!! if you cant see yourself moving soon to be with this person.. dont start! once you start is damn painful to leave..and if they are crazy about you makes harder...and if you feel guilty all the time that what you may feel is a strong attraction over the looks...and get bored with the rest..hummmmmmmmmmmmmmm trouble is I am somehow hooked...and I feel like ..oh god I wish I could have that ice cream every day..but will make me fat..do I want to be fat? heck no.. but is this a addiction>? I never had one..never smoked never had alcohol.. I am a fit freak no meat.. but so addicted I guess over this chick....cos is a cant be with nor without.. what if she sucks in person? yes too many questions...with out knowing answers... far way is sweet in the start..after is hell... hell ..pain hell... I guess lets try the 21 days to forget less

one more thing... is this a real relationship ..if both never even met in person??? I guess not... well I told her to my long d love and well then I said then is just fantasy ..illusion..cos if we never met in person its just illusion.. I made many fotos every week... I made many videos of me my life,..all I do.. I sent stuff.. but she cant.. no money to do it.. then I well only see few pictures...makes me feel lack of trust... therefore I did not want to be in a illusion.. she got angry I call this only a illusion ..she wants to marry me gay marriage is not easy.. but she wants to be married to me....cos Im the love of her life.. well the way I see if you never been in person with ..you have many questions therefore... better end sick of typing all every thing we imagine doing it.. so its over.. she said if I left her one more time she wont ever be back ..ok.. cos .. see it hurts! unless you have seen this person already.... and see a way to be soon together.. forget it!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 you will only go NUTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! it hurts too! so oh well... good article.. I want her out of my mind!!!! less

So, it didn't work out for you. That's okay, not everybody is made for this kind of relationship. But could you please not degrade other people's relatioships, honesty and feelings, just because *you* couldn't handle it? Don't think because you have made a conclusion for yourself about LDRs, everyone else must necessarily come to the same conclusion and act the same way (and is automatically a liar, if they don't). Yes, I am not fooling anyone, simply because I am being perfectly sincere when I am saying I am happy with my relationship and have been for 5 years and over ~8000km. None of that changed when we had the chance to live with each other for a while and then had to go live on different continents again. Like in EVERY relationship not everything in a LDR is perfect - that obviously also includes some things related to the distance (whereas others might have problems related to sharing a household), but there are also nice things related to distance that others cannot have. It's usually not permanent (I'll freely admit that I wouldn't want it to be permanent!), anyway. Being in an LDR for an extended amount of time has nothing to do with feeling comfortable or safe - it has to do with who you are; it has to do with loving a person who is worth every single inch of the distance and every day of the wait; it has to do with being able to anticipate and await the future with a healthy amount of maturity and patience. And no, it doesn't necessarily end in an explosion, either. I had another LDR before, and that ended quite peacefully over matters that are certainly not exclusive to LDRs, nor did the aftermath feel any different from the end of other relationships. The only added bonus is that we probably won't be invited to the same parties to be awkward around each other. Also, yes, there are many amazing people out there. But I think running away from a really great relationship, just to possibly find something that is more easy to handle is the more comfortable and lazy option - as opposed to nourishing, nuturing and caring for the relationship that you have and love. That's all asides from the fact that that isn't even an option for me. I absolutely do want THIS person and I have no reason to break my partner's beautiful heart (or my own, for the matter). I don't know about anyone else's, but my relationship is worth more than ditching it for such a stupid reason. If I thought my partner as a person was just replaceable, I'd probably shouldn't have that partner in the first place. In conclusion, I think you are wrong - very wrong - about all your generalizations concerning honesty and being comfortable, jealousy, resentment, boredom, missing out on things and becoming crazy. You are even wrong about Skype - I don't even have Skype (or anything similar) - and you appear to have no idea how good LDRs work and feel. That may be because only know a bad one, or so I assume from your text, and you seem rather bitter about it. You may of course correct me, if I am wrong about that. For some people an LDR may be as you experienced it, but I'll quite happily classify your headline advice to "just say no" as one of the worst ideas that was ever suggested to me. less

Hello viewers, i am ANDERSON by name and i want to testify the goodness of a great spell caster in my relationship. I have been into a relationship for two years. i so much cherish my girl friend to an extent that i proposed to her. 3 months after my proposal to her, she saw her old time boyfriend and she fall in love with him, a friend of mine told me that she saw my girlfriend with her old time boyfriend, son i had to call my girlfriend and ask her, she agreed and came to my house to return my ring back to me. ever since then i have been begging her to come back to me. i have tried my possible best for her to come back to me. i have visited many sites and i have contacted 4 spell caster, but they all took my money and none of them was able to help until when i met a man called dr smart it took him 2 weeks to convince me. so something just run through my mind, i said let me just give a trial, so he ask to send him the money for the items and i did. he told me that i should wait for 7 days. 4 days later an unknown number called me so i found out that it was SANDY my girl friend, i was even shocked because the spell was even faster then i thought. my girl friend is now with me. drsmartspellhome@gmail.com,i believe he can help you in your situation... less

Hello everybody, I totally agree that LDRs don't work if you're not prepared to move... I started almost 5 years ago a relationship with a co-worker... due to legal issues (custody over her son) she had to return to her home-country permanently on another continent... during all those years we skyped and twice a year I visited her... LOVE... and then last November - while visiting her - I realized that to continue our relationship I (!) had to make a decision; moving and leaving (some "things") behind, but I also realized that in the long run there would be a risk losing the love for her and she for me .. so what did I do; I broke off the relationship... somebody I really loved and still do ... UNFORTUNATELY I did it in an immature way; I just told her after a discussion about her son and left without too much explanation... that's what I ALWAYS will regret...looking back I should have done it in a mature way and/or MAYBE I SHOULD HAVE FOLLOWED MY HEART AND NOT MY HEAD... too late... I have to learn to live with it, that I lost the woman of my life who loved me unconditionally... it made me look for a therapist to discover what other "thinking" made me do what I did... THX less

My name stave fisher i am a doctor i live in USA i had a problem with my wife so i did my possible best to please her that she going to live me that we can not have children that i am not man so i told her that i love her that we can make thing work i told her that we should go and do this test and surprised she was the one who had the problem so were look for solution,i was contacting a lot of fake spell they scam me i was tried of my life so i was reading the newspaper when i saw a testimony by a woman that this man help so i was try to get the woman when i now saw the the woman now told me that my problem is over when i contact this man i tough she was joking when she now told her friend story how this man help her to have children of her own so i now told my wife we now this to contact him so the next four day a man who also have a problem of his wife that left him for 2year now,when he now contact this man this man help him to get his wife back and now they her happy he give is testimony on the television so now contacted this man this man now told that it is God that give children that he is going to pray for me and my wife after he had pray for me the next month my wife was pregnant i was happy i now told him he was happy for me i now i want to tell the world this man is a man sent by God to come help people,i thank you every much for help me so if you are in need of is help contact him on this email oduwahomeofsolution@gmail.com less

Hello, I figured I would share my story under an alias. I have been in a LDR for over a year now- we are both in college (my third year, his last year). We met at a random party one night while I was visiting my friend at a college in upstate New York, didn't even exchange numbers, ended up he messaged me on FaceBook that Sunday after I had left. Anyway, I am from Long Island, he is from Albany, but nevertheless after talking for 3 months he visited me for a weekend and we went on a date and realized we wanted to be committed to each other. Now, over a year later I have never been happier. We try to see each other every 2-3 weeks (every other weekend) and we make time to skype when we can and text when we can. Yes, it is hard but it really can work- I promise. As long as you are committed and have a plan for after you graduate or whenever a job opens up near your significant other, it will be over. And just think- there are a lot of people who have it worse than you do. Imagine only getting to see your boyfriend/girlfriend once a year. Or even less than that. I feel so blessed to have this great guy in my life that I can see once every 2-4 weeks. Even though he's going to law school next year possibly down south or across the country, I know that after I graduate I want to move in with him and that it will all be worth it if we get to spend the rest of our lives together. less

HELLO to my friends out there i am testifying about the good work of a man who help me it has been hell from the day my husband left me i am a woman with two kids my problem stated when the father of my kids travel i never help he was living but as at two weeks i did not set my eye on my husband i try calling but he was not taken my call some week he call me telling me that he has found love some where easy at first i never take to be serous but day after he came to the house to pick his things that was the time i notice that things is going bad i help he will come back but things was going bad day by day i needed to talk to someone about it so i went to his friend but there was no help so i give it up on him month later i met on the the internet a spell caster i never believe on this but i needed my men back so i gave the spell caster my problem at first i never trusted him so i was just doing it for doing sake but after three day my husband called me telling me that he his coming home i still do not believe but as at the six day the father to my kids came to the house asking me to for give him the spell work to said to my self from that day i was happy with my family thanks to the esango priest of (abamieghe)esango priest he his a great man you need to try him you can as well to tell him your problem so that he can be of help to you his content email is this esangopriest@hotmail.com indeed you are a priest thank you for making my home a happy home again. remember his email is esangopriest@hotmail.com less

i told my boyfriend to take a week space from me to sort out his feelings. i was hopeful that things would work out as he was always telling me that he loved me and had strong feelings for me. but all of a sudden he said that he wanted to be single and had doubts about our future together. i did cry but i did not beg him to stay. i said sorry for any hurt i had caused him and thanked him for showing me love. very hard but i did it with as much dignity as i could. but i never understand why he don't want to stay with me. but before he left he told me i am irresistible, lovely warm person etc but he just want to walk away from my life. the pain was awful. our getting together was fateful and we found out our birthday both 1st June. he is 43 and i am 44. it was weird. i thought we were made for each other. he deleted my numbers but i never let go of him. i wanted him back but he has made up his mind so i had no choice but to look for a way to get him back so what i did was to look for a spell caster to help me get back my lover fast as possible, when i came across greatzuba@gmail.com, so he did a love spell for me and the spell came out perfect, my lover reconciled with me and we came back together and since then we have been in peace and the lover is flowing perfectly less

Well, like anyone else of this site, i'm also in an LDR and i've been in others before. We're living about 1540 miles apart from each other, we're doing fine. We do have ups and downs once in a while, but that's how all relationships are, whether its an LDR or a relationship in your own town, state, country or what ever. How you say long relationship is not working is bs. I'm sorry it didn't work for you.. But that doesn't mean you have to make everyone else think its something horrible.. Of course it's not easy.. It involves a lot patient, trust, time and so on. Yes it will probably be painful once in a while because you want to be with the other person, I'm aware of that. I've met a person who was in and LDR and they moved in together and are doing amazing. My boyfriend and I have talked about moving in together once we're both done with our education and so.. Which will be in some years.. We have already talked a bit about who is moving..We're both willing to move to be with each other. Yes, it's not easy to be in an LDR.. No relationship is to be honest. Every relationship needs a lot of work. If you truly do love the other person then you'd do ANYTHING and I mean ANYTHING, to be with that person. less

My Name is Mrs sreekanth .I will love to share my testimony to all the people in the forum cos i never thought i will have my girlfriend back and she means so much to me..The girl i want to get marry to left me 4 weeks to our weeding for another man..,When i called her she never picked my calls,She deleted me on her Facebook and she changed her Facebook status from married to Single...when i went to her place of work she told her boss she never want to see me..i lost my job as a result of this cos i cant get myself anymore,my life was upside down and everything did not go smooth with my life...I tried all i could do to have her back to all did not work out until i met a Man when i Travel to Africa to execute some business have been developing some years back..I told him my problem and all have passed through in getting her back and how i lost my job...he told me he gonna help me...i don't believe that in the first place.but he swore he will help me out and he told me the reason why my girlfriend left me and also told me some hidden secrets.i was amazed when i heard that from him..he said he will cast a spell for me and i will see the results in the next couple of days..then i travel back to US the following day and i called him when i got home and he said he's busy casting those spells and he has bought all the materials needed for the spells,he said am gonna see positive results in the next 2 days that is Thursday...My girlfriend called me at exactly 12:35pm on Thursday and apologies for all she had done ..she said,she never knew what she's doing and her sudden behavior was not intentional and she promised not to do that again.it was like am dreaming when i heard that from her and when we ended the call,i called the man and told him my wife called and he said i haven't seen anything yet... he said i will also get my job back in 2 days time..and when its Sunday,they called me at my place of work that i should resume working on Monday and they gonna compensate me for the time limit have spent at home without working..My life is back into shape,i have my girlfriend back and we are happily married now with kids and i have my job back too,This man is really powerful..if we have up to 20 people like him in the world,the world would have been a better place..he has also helped many of my friends to solve many problems and they are all happy now..Am posting this to the forum for anybody that is interested in meeting the man for help.you can mail him on this e-mail; worldwidesupremetemple@gmail.com i cant give out his number cos he told me he don't want to be disturbed by many people across the world..he said his email is okay and he' will replied to any emails asap..hope he helped u out too..good luck his email;worldwidesupremetemple@gmail.com less

My Name is Mrs sreekanth .I will love to share my testimony to all the people in the forum cos i never thought i will have my girlfriend back and she means so much to me..The girl i want to get marry to left me 4 weeks to our weeding for another man..,When i called her she never picked my calls,She deleted me on her Facebook and she changed her Facebook status from married to Single...when i went to her place of work she told her boss she never want to see me..i lost my job as a result of this cos i cant get myself anymore,my life was upside down and everything did not go smooth with my life...I tried all i could do to have her back to all did not work out until i met a Man when i Travel to Africa to execute some business have been developing some years back..I told him my problem and all have passed through in getting her back and how i lost my job...he told me he gonna help me...i don't believe that in the first place.but he swore he will help me out and he told me the reason why my girlfriend left me and also told me some hidden secrets.i was amazed when i heard that from him..he said he will cast a spell for me and i will see the results in the next couple of days..then i travel back to US the following day and i called him when i got home and he said he's busy casting those spells and he has bought all the materials needed for the spells,he said am gonna see positive results in the next 2 days that is Thursday...My girlfriend called me at exactly 12:35pm on Thursday and apologies for all she had done ..she said,she never knew what she's doing and her sudden behavior was not intentional and she promised not to do that again.it was like am dreaming when i heard that from her and when we ended the call,i called the man and told him my wife called and he said i haven't seen anything yet... he said i will also get my job back in 2 days time..and when its Sunday,they called me at my place of work that i should resume working on Monday and they gonna compensate me for the time limit have spent at home without working..My life is back into shape,i have my girlfriend back and we are happily married now with kids and i have my job back too,This man is really powerful..if we have up to 20 people like him in the world,the world would have been a better place..he has also helped many of my friends to solve many problems and they are all happy now..Am posting this to the forum for anybody that is interested in meeting the man for help.you can mail him on this e-mail; worldwidesupremetemple@gmail.com i cant give out his number cos he told me he don't want to be disturbed by many people across the world..he said his email is okay and he' will replied to any emails asap..hope he helped u out too..good luck his email;worldwidesupremetemple@gmail.com less

I want to say thanks to agumagu spell temple for everything so far. To everyone who doesn’t believe in spell, I was one of those ones at first. I wasn’t quite sure if I wanted to do this since I’ve tried others so-called spells casters and they did not work and was a waste of my time and money. However, when I read through the testimonials of other people at this website and after I talked to Dr Agumagu who answered all my questions and was very nice about everything, I decided to give it a try. I figured it would be my last try to get my guy back. So my story is that I was at my office when the guy I am in love with told me that he wasn’t in love with me and never will be and that he didn’t want to speak or see me again, especially since he was talking to this other girl. When I talked to Dr Agumagu, he let me know which spells would be most appropriate for me and I chose the ones that was to get him back to me and stay with me and want to marry me. As soon as he started on the spells, my guy came back into my life! It was a miracle to me and I’m so thankful for that. Things have been going well, and pretty much according to what Dr Agumagu the spell is done. I’m still waiting for the spells to completely manifest, but with all that has happened so far I’m very happy because given only four months ago in March, if you asked me or my friends if I would have anticipated how things were right now…no one would believe it! Lara. To contact him agumaguspelltemple@gmail. com less

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Well, coming from someone who is in a successful LDR, I have some opinions about this post. First of all, saying that being in a LDR is wasting years of your life where you could be dating other people is silly because then in any relationship, you are "wasting" time not dating other people. To me, an LDR is an ultimate test. I have been in one for 2 years now and will be moving back to where my BF is from in 6 months. We both have so much going on in our lives, finishing school and working, we are so blessed to have one another. We see each other once or twice a month and it is so great when we get together. We have some contact every day, whether it is text, call or facetime. Honestly, if your relationship is so immature that you are jealous of facebook posts and pictures, then it probably wouldn't work out even if you lived in the same place. LDRs are not the problem, the relationship is the problem. Me and my BF want each other to hangout with friends and have a good time. We know that we're the only ones for each other. If it doesn't work out, then I would in no way blame it on the distance. less

My Name is JANE.I will love to share my testimony to all the people in the forum cos i never thought i will have my girlfriend back and she means so much to me..The girl i want to get marry to left me 4 weeks to our wedding for another man..,When i called her she never picked my calls,She deleted me on her facebook and she changed her facebook status from married to Single...when i went to her to her place of work she told her boss she never want to see me..I lost my job as a result of this cos i cant get myself anymore,my life was upside down and everything did not go smooth with my life...I tried all i could do to have her back to all did not work out until i met a Man when i Travel to Africa to execute some business have been developing some years back..I told him my problem and all have passed through in getting her back and how i lost my job...he told me he gonna help me...i don't believe that in the first place.but he swore he will help me out and he told me the reason why my girlfriend left me and also told me some hidden secrets.i was amazed when i heard that from him..he said he will cast a spell for me and i will see the results in the next couple of days..then i travel back to US the following day and i called him when i got home and he said he's busy casting those spells and he has bought all the materials needed for the spells,he said am gonna see positive results in the next 2 days that is Thursday...My girlfriend called me at exactly 12:35pm on Thursday and apologies for all she had done ..she said,she never knew what she's doing and her sudden behavior was not intentional and she promised not to do that again.it was like am dreaming when i heard that from her and when we ended the call,i called the man and told him my wife called and he said i haven't seen anything yet... he said i will also get my job back in 3 days time..and when its Sunday,they called me at my place of work that i should resume working on Monday and they gonna compensate me for the time limit have spent at home without working..My life is back into shape,i have my girlfriend back and we are happily married now with kids and i have my job back too.This man is really powerful..if we have up to 20 people like him in the world,the world would have been a better place..he has also helped many of my friends to solve many problems and they are all happy now..Am posting this to the forum for anybody that is interested in meeting the man for help.you can mail him to Lavenderlovespell@gmail.com I cant give out his number cos he told me he don't want to be disturbed by many people across the world..he said his email is okay and he' will replied to any emails asap..hope he helped u out too..good luck:Lavenderlovespell@gmail.com.ONCE AGAIN HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: Lavenderlovespell@gmail.com less

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I agree with this and with ACEGIRL on everything, she is seriously right about it all. I was in an LDR for 1 1/2 actually almost around 2 years. It was not fun for me or the guy. We were heavily in love with each other, he had visited me twice in the 2 year span, I'm 23 hes 22. first year was great, second year things started to change, I noticed he was slacking off on the communication, we would be so busy with our lives that we would talk maybe 2 times a week on skype chat, the calls stopped coming in from him and i was beginning to get frustrated and sad over it. The problem is is that he was working far too much and was very busy with college, work, DJ'ing. ect. I knew getting into an LDR would be difficult and at first I did not want one, this was my first LDR, and his as well. I have dated in RL also so i did have some past serious relationships. After the first year i immediately started asking him questions about how will we do this? what about the future. ect questions you SHOULD ask. IF you have a plan it wont go anywhere....and we had none bc our lives were in 2 dif places. He lives in Canada, I live in CA/USA, no matter how many times i was realistic about asking him questions that would effect the future he had no answer. i was beginning to wonder if the distance was causing it or if he just got lazy. Money was also an issue, I could not visit him in the time he wanted, iam going to university and financially it was not possible for me to just hop on a plane to Canada. This was also irritating him. However, I am graduating, and this was when i posed the idea of moving out there to him but he had no thought on it. There were times he'd be upset, times he never talked about his feelings, we'd say I love you everyday, but he was not there for me. it was really going into a downward spiral, we had great times in RL, in fact i wanted a future so badly with him, i saw it, i knew it was possible, but he was not feeling the same way and I had to find out out of nowhere. One day i decided to confront him for his lack of communication, that conversation somehow turned into a full blown conversation about how can we be together, he was finally able to be honest and he truly did not believe we were working out or that it was going to work. I was shocked and hurt to hear him say it but i too was frustrated with how things were going. He blamed the distance, and said that the distance would be the end of it in the long run, he also noticed all his friends had gf's, and he was missing out, i had posed those concerns early on but he was too busy on Cloud 9 to see what i meant til now. i was pretty upset that he did not realize it sooner, esp since 2 weeks ago he still was acting as tho we were fine. It was hard even to get him to sit down and talk on skype. It really was the beginning of the end. I was hopeful, but the fact that he had no goal, and said he would not move here, and also said that he could not see a future was what killed it as well as just ruling out further possibilities, he also admitted he worked too much and got lazy with the relationship communication end of it which was true. LDR's take work, they take patience, and optimism. The fact that he had given up so easily prompted me to believe that i was not worth trying for no matter how much we loved each other. it was the hardest thing he had to do, and it both hurt us so much. iam still hurt a week later, it is a very hard hard thing to do. to let someone go who u thought was the love of your life. I realized that we are in 2 dif places in life, that we were just not meant to be and if we are then the future will tell. LDRs do not work, u cant simply give up your own life, your friends, your home for someone who is scared of facing the reality, neither us would be happy and we were becoming unhappy in the LDR. Iam still considering friendship but since im never friends with exes its harder for me, we are best friends, but it may just be too hurtful to see him and I move on with other people when we still love each other very much. He does still love me and will for a long time but we have to live our lives. We are young people, and still figuring it all out for ourselves. you need to consider 4 things in an LDR 1.Make a Plan (without one it will drag on) 2.Communicate weekly 3.Make sure your financially capable of making visits periodically and 4. Compromise. Please dont settle for anyone less, there are local people as well, you dont have to give up your life for someone, and you know if my ex hadnt of had the balls to finally say how he felt we would still be dragging on, I need a person who can commit, try and overcome. I need a fighter. It is a real test to see how long your love can go in an LDR, however i wont be doing another LDR again. I guarantee marriage is probably alot harder. If you can get through an LDR and see the end of it, by all means marry lol State-State may or may not work , Country-Country DOES NOT WORK. However, im still healing, he was after all the love of my life, i do not hate him, in fact none of us hate each other, but the end of an LDR is a HUGE hurt and really for me and him it was the Wrong place/Wrong Time he was right for me but the place and time was not there in our lives, and very very stressful and depressing. nature needs to balance out and sometimes people were just meant for each other in a different life with different circumstances. Dont be afraid to let go in search of finding yourself and someone who fits right into your life at the right time. less

Natalie, you are still so very young, i know it doesnt seem like it now but things will get better, im 23 and I just realized it. I too had spent most of the relationship alone, so i understand where u are coming from, sometimes being too independent in a relationship can lead to loneliness or even a realization that maybe it can work without him, it does take a lot of trust, emotional commitment, and it will only get worse, from experience, Remember LDR has to be a 2 way relationship, it cannot be one sided, I put as much as i could into the relationship, it was sadly still not enough, and I can see by your post that you seem to be at the point of letting go because of how hard it really is,your 18 and I know you will meet someone, and you def have a long time to do just that. Think about it...being independent and not having someone around it makes you question what the point is? I Often did that, and am starting to realize that i was ALWAYS alone in LDR , im not going to lie the break up for me is hard, and u will go through some turmoil but in the end I just wanted to be happy, and also wanted the same for him. i do still love him very much but life goes on and changes, you SHOULD do whats best for you always, never put off your dreams, hopes and goals for a guy you hardly get anything out of except false hope of a future, we all want love, but sometimes its not the right love at the right time. I hope you do whats right and take time to figure things out and work on you :) less

I don't just know how to start am just short of word's and happy that i celebrate my Esther with my wife,Due to the help of Dr dodo ,This Dr dodo has brought back happiness into my life that i have lacked for year,My name is Maxwell am from the United State of America,Am just so happy today and today has been the happiest day of my life and this happiness has brought me joy and am so happy,Because Dr dodo brought back my lover Tricia into my arms without any delay,After my lover left me for good 2years,i was in deep pain and always thinking because i truly loved Tricia,Until a faithful day listen to the radio due to boredom,Then in which i had a lady shouting in happiness about the great thing Dr dodo has done how Dr dodo brought back her lover back into her arms within 36hours,when i had that goodness i decided in contacting Dr dodo immediately,Because i was desperate in getting in touch with him,So i got in touch with him,Which then i told him my problem and he promised in bringing back Tricia back to my arms within 24hours,And then when i had that Tricia would be back to my arms within 24hours i was so happy and waiting to feel Tricia,And really Tricia came into my arms within 24hours,Begging me for forgiveness,i was so happy when i saw Tricia now my lover is fully back to my arms due to the help of this great man Dr dodo who has bought back happiness into our great country(Usa)Please friend in need of help you don't need to go far all you need to do is for you to kindly contact Dr dodo dodo for help,Because he his trustworthy and straight forward,You can contact him on his private mail,dodoplaceofservation@yahoo.com less

i am giving this testimony cos l am happy My name is mrs. Santana Valdez from Houston,taxes.i never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once. when i went to Africa in May 25th 2013 this year on a business summit. i ment a man called dr. Atakpo.He is powerful he could help you cast a spells to bring back my love’s gone,misbehaving lover looking for some one to love you, bring back lost money and magic money spell or spell for a good job.i’m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 2 years… i really loved him, but his mother was against me and he had no good paying job. so when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him..at first i was undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. and in 6 days when i returned to taxes, my boyfriend (is now my husband ) he called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married..i didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do… well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid,and my husband also got a new job and our lives became much better. in case anyone needs the spell caster for some help, email address atakpotemble@yahoo.com Great Atakpo i thank you very much thank you in 1000000 times.. if not you i would have been losted and wasted thank you. Email Him Through his email address... atakpotemble@yahoo.com please make sure you contact him for any financial difficulties okay.. What a powerful man such as Dr Atakpo.. he is so much powerful..\\ email him for any difficulties.. atakpotemble@yahoo.com less

My Name is JANE.I will love to share my testimony to all the people in the forum cos i never thought i will have my girlfriend back and she means so much to me..The girl i want to get marry to left me 4 weeks to our wedding for another man..,When i called her she never picked my calls,She deleted me on her facebook and she changed her facebook status from married to Single...when i went to her to her place of work she told her boss she never want to see me..I lost my job as a result of this cos i cant get myself anymore,my life was upside down and everything did not go smooth with my life...I tried all i could do to have her back to all did not work out until i met a Man when i Travel to Africa to execute some business have been developing some years back..I told him my problem and all have passed through in getting her back and how i lost my job...he told me he gonna help me...i don't believe that in the first place.but he swore he will help me out and he told me the reason why my girlfriend left me and also told me some hidden secrets.i was amazed when i heard that from him..he said he will cast a spell for me and i will see the results in the next couple of days..then i travel back to US the following day and i called him when i got home and he said he's busy casting those spells and he has bought all the materials needed for the spells,he said am gonna see positive results in the next 2 days that is Thursday...My girlfriend called me at exactly 12:35pm on Thursday and apologies for all she had done ..she said,she never knew what she's doing and her sudden behavior was not intentional and she promised not to do that again.it was like am dreaming when i heard that from her and when we ended the call,i called the man and told him my wife called and he said i haven't seen anything yet... he said i will also get my job back in 3 days time..and when its Sunday,they called me at my place of work that i should resume working on Monday and they gonna compensate me for the time limit have spent at home without working..My life is back into shape,i have my girlfriend back and we are happily married now with kids and i have my job back too.This man is really powerful..if we have up to 20 people like him in the world,the world would have been a better place..he has also helped many of my friends to solve many problems and they are all happy now..Am posting this to the forum for anybody that is interested in meeting the man for help.you can mail him to johnyiyi@rocketmail.com I cant give out his number cos he told me he don't want to be disturbed by many people across the world..he said his email is okay and he' will replied to any emails asap..hope he helped u out too..good luck:johnyiyi@rocketmail.com.ONCE AGAIN HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: johnyiyi@rocketmail.com less

I totally disagree with this whole article...I am currently in a long distance relationship, New Jersey to Vancouver, Canada. Let me start off with we met playing video games. Video games was a common interest, it can't ever get boring when you play a whole number of different games. My boyfriend was never into keeping up with sports just knowing the final scores of hockey. He has a career and works from home. We have interest on our childhood like Disney. It makes a difference when you Skype 24/7 that includes sleeping together and watching movies. We are super close, more close than a relationship I have been in when I lived with a boyfriend... He has visited me and I have stayed with him for 2 months. I plan on becoming a Canadian citizen. He already has moved closer to me to Ontario, Canada. From the beginning I have been honest with him about myself. I told him every single one of my flaws. I told him about all of my scars, how I'm ugly, how my pee smells, that I'm crazy psycho jealous. Yes most girls lie to make themselves look better but This wasn't my first long distance relationship so I learned. I told him the truth and he accepted me for who I am. He has dated all kinds of girls he tells all his guy friends that he realized all girls are crazy but I am worth it. We have fought before we even met and we still love each other. If it wasn't love we would've gave up on the distance but its more than that. LDR is like any other relationship, even when you meet people in person for the first time you still pretend to make yourself seem better than you really are and at any given moment can someone change....distance doesn't make a difference. If you have to question someone on trust, there's obviously issues there but so do normal relationships. We didn't have that because like I said Skype 24/7 and if he did go out there's an app called Voxer, you can see their location when them message you. In the end you just have to trust them because no one would stay with you if they didn't even like you. I've met his sister, skyped with his parents and that's the closest to a boyfriends family I have ever been....My boyfriend is coming to see me on his birthday the 15th - 23rd of this month. It's been more than 2 years since I've known him. We didn't officially date until we met though. I don't know what else to say besides we're compatible, we enjoy our hobbies together, and were supportive of each other...We make each other better people. He quit smoking weed, drinking, and caffeine for me. We apply mutual rules for each other. Plan our future...trying for a baby... Just because long distance relationships haven't worked out for you in the past doesn't mean its the same for every one. Everyone is different. A relationship is based off of two people working together, all it takes is for one person to screw up. ALL relationships have chances of not working out...it's the people, not the distance. less

Last month just before my anniversary I discovered my wife has been having an affair. After trying to talk to her about it she moved me out of the house and moved this guy in. On our anniversary no less. She says she loves him and wants to marry him. Says he is so amazing and she has a connection with him shes never felt before. They have been seeing eachother now for 3 months and he has lived in our home for the last month. I've found out my wife has had several affairs in the last year. She says she wants a divorce and doesn't want to even try. I truly love my wife and i want her and my kids back. I'm willing to do whatever it takes to win her back. In the last week I was able.to be intimate with my wife once but 10 mins into it she started crying and said she doesnt want to hurt people.i meant an old friend of mine who introduce me to great zuba,he is a great spell caster he was the only one who help me bring back my wife and now i am living with my family and we are all happy again all thanks to great zuba.for those of you who are passing through the same hell with your relationship contact greatzuba@gmail.com and win back your lover. less

Well, I like the article, despice che fact that I do not agree. I am young and in a LDR - everything has developed very quickly for me and my boyfriend, and short after we met, we decided to be boryfriend-girlfriend. This happened during exchange, and my boyfriend had to leave our exchange country only a months after. Today a year and a half has passed, and we are planning on moving together. I has been a long and heartbreaking journey for us both, but thanks to our plans for the future, we have figured it out. We live in different parts of the world and have met once in 4-6 months (which omg, it is cruel! :P). I think the question about "is it going to last or not" depends on some very important things really: * Support from family and friends. In my case half of my family has been super supportive and friends too, but I actually broke up with my boyfriend because of extreme pressure from the other half of my family. * Plans for the future.. already explained :) *The personality of the couple - my boyfriend and I are very alike but at the same time different, and we do not really care about appearing cool and having 100s of friends, which creates the foundation of the realitonship, if you ask me. *Communication! Talk about it! If you love eachother, nothing is too sad or difficult to talk about - if not you will end up feeling bad and even longer away from eachother, which will give you a feeling of beeing even more alone *Enjoy it! Have hopes for the future together, and live NOW, because if you live on "I will be happy, next time I see him/her", you end up miserable, which causes depressing conversations which might destroy your time together. Good luck all of you, happy to see, that there are so many of us! :)) less

I am from united kingdom am here to testify in the good name of this God-sent called Dr Adams for the great things he has done in my life.. First of all i want to thank mareen for the post she made on how Dr Adams helped her in bringing back her lover. At first when i saw the posting i was so happy and in the other hand so scared,That this might not be real, Then i decided to give it a try in which i contacted Dr Adams and told him how my lover left me for another lady for the past 3years and i have been lonely and depressed without him,So i asked him if he has helped anyone called mareen and he said yes, that was the lady he helped in bringing back her lover. I said good and i told him that if he can help me in bringing back my own lover,He laughed and said once i have contacted him that my problem will be solved.He said that my lover will be back to me within 48hours and do an unexpected thing for me. i said really, Truly when the 48hours was completed i got a text from someone saying am sorry then i decided to call the number i saw it was my lover Steve voice.i was so happy he was begging me and crying on phone, That he is ready to do anything that will make me happy in life,So i told him to come over which he did,As he was coming he came with a brand new Car as gift i was so happy and he made me had access to his account SSN ATM pin and beneficiary to all his account am so happy today with the help of Dr Adams. He has proven to me that he is not going to leave me for another lady again and stay with me forever, Am so happy today and am also thanking mareen for posting this early.Dr Adams you are truly a man of your word. He can also cure diabetes, cancer or any kind of sickness and he can solve any kind of problems in this world. Friends i believe Dr Adams is a man to trust and believe on. You don't need to cry anymore Dr Adams has been sent to clean our tears you can contact him on dradamsjohnsoncentre12@ gmail. com or cell phone +2348061568574. less

Last month just before my anniversary I discovered my wife has been having an affair. After trying to talk to her about it she moved me out of the house and moved this guy in. On our anniversary no less. She says she loves him and wants to marry him. Says he is so amazing and she has a connection with him shes never felt before. They have been seeing each other now for 3 months and he has lived in our home for the last month. I've found out my wife has had several affairs in the last year. She says she wants a divorce and doesn't want to even try. I truly love my wife and i want her and my kids back. I'm willing to do whatever it takes to win her back. In the last week I was able.to be intimate with my wife once but 10 mins into it she started crying and said she doesnt want to hurt people.i meant an old friend of mine who introduce me to great zuba,he is a great spell caster he was the only one who help me bring back my wife and now i am living with my family and we are all happy again all thanks to great zuba.for those of you who are passing through the same hell with your relationship contact greatzuba@gmail.com and win back your lover. less

I don't just know how to start am just short of word's and happy that i celebrate my Esther with my wife,Due to the help of Dr dodo ,This Dr dodo has brought back happiness into my life that i have lacked for year,My name is Maxwell am from the United State of America,Am just so happy today and today has been the happiest day of my life and this happiness has brought me joy and am so happy,Because Dr dodo brought back my lover Tricia into my arms without any delay,After my lover left me for good 2years,i was in deep pain and always thinking because i truly loved Tricia,Until a faithful day listen to the radio due to boredom,Then in which i had a lady shouting in happiness about the great thing Dr dodo has done how Dr dodo brought back her lover back into her arms within 36hours,when i had that goodness i decided in contacting Dr dodo immediately,Because i was desperate in getting in touch with him,So i got in touch with him,Which then i told him my problem and he promised in bringing back Tricia back to my arms within 24hours,And then when i had that Tricia would be back to my arms within 24hours i was so happy and waiting to feel Tricia,And really Tricia came into my arms within 24hours,Begging me for forgiveness,i was so happy when i saw Tricia now my lover is fully back to my arms due to the help of this great man Dr dodo who has bought back happiness into our great country(Usa)Please friend in need of help you don't need to go far all you need to do is for you to kindly contact Dr dodo dodo for help,Because he his trustworthy and straight forward,You can contact him on his private mail,dodoplaceofservation@yahoo.com less

My name is Miss Crystal and I’m from the United States.I’m writing this testimony to tell anyone who needs help No matter if it’s help for love,money or anything else there’s only one place to go to get this help there’s nothing to big they can help you with whatever your problem is. I had contacted them to get some help the oracle was very understanding in my situation and my problem the oracle told me everything I had to do to get this help and what was required of me,the oracle was always there to answer any question I had and was always quick in responding to my questions or any problem I had. They will be there for you every step of the way and will be by your side for as long as you need them. The oracle will solve any of your problems and get you the out come you deserve and want. If you want your lover back or you need help with any other situation all you have to do is contact this email address and ask for help.They are caring and understanding and will help you every step of the way.I never believed in magic or that there was anyone who could help until I contacted this email icandoshrinetemple@gmail.com.if u need help this is the email to contact. Thank you so much icandoshrinetemple@gmail.com less

Hi My name is “Nilson” just want to share my experience with the world on how i got my love back and saved my marriage… I was married for 7years with 2kids and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had fights and arguments almost every time… it got worse at a point that she filed for divorce… I tried my best to make her change her mind & stay with me cause i loved her with all my heart and didn’t want to loose her but everything just didn’t work out… she moved out of the house and still went ahead to file for divorce… I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful, great spell caster DR Akerele who eventually helped me out… I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly cause I was desperate and left with no choice… He did special prayers and used roots and herbs… Within 3 days she called me and was sorry for all the emotional trauma she had cost me, moved back to the house and we continue to live happily, the kids are happy too and we are expecting our third child… I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news… Just thought I should share my experience cause I strongly believe someone out there need’s it… You can email the akereletemple@gmail.com)….To know more on how you will go about bringing your love once back… Don’t give up just yet, the different between less

Hi My name is “Nilson” just want to share my experience with the world on how i got my love back and saved my marriage… I was married for 7years with 2kids and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had fights and arguments almost every time… it got worse at a point that she filed for divorce… I tried my best to make her change her mind & stay with me cause i loved her with all my heart and didn’t want to loose her but everything just didn’t work out… she moved out of the house and still went ahead to file for divorce… I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful, great spell caster DR Akerele who eventually helped me out… I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly cause I was desperate and left with no choice… He did special prayers and used roots and herbs… Within 3 days she called me and was sorry for all the emotional trauma she had cost me, moved back to the house and we continue to live happily, the kids are happy too and we are expecting our third child… I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news… Just thought I should share my experience cause I strongly believe someone out there need’s it… You can email the akereletemple@gmail.com)….To know more on how you will go about bringing your love once back… Don’t give up just yet, the different between less

Hi My name is “Nilson” just want to share my experience with the world on how i got my love back and saved my marriage… I was married for 7years with 2kids and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had fights and arguments almost every time… it got worse at a point that she filed for divorce… I tried my best to make her change her mind & stay with me cause i loved her with all my heart and didn’t want to loose her but everything just didn’t work out… she moved out of the house and still went ahead to file for divorce… I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful, great spell caster DR Akerele who eventually helped me out… I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly cause I was desperate and left with no choice… He did special prayers and used roots and herbs… Within 3 days she called me and was sorry for all the emotional trauma she had cost me, moved back to the house and we continue to live happily, the kids are happy too and we are expecting our third child… I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news… Just thought I should share my experience cause I strongly believe someone out there need’s it… You can email the akereletemple@gmail.com)….To know more on how you will go about bringing your love once back… Don’t give up just yet, the different between less

please i want you all to read this testimony as the man was brought to the world to save people from frustrations from lost loves lost jobs i wanna post on this forum because i know there are many of you out there who are in the same problem i was i am Mabel writhe and i am from Canada cold lake in Alberta and i and my husband were married for fifteen years with three children our lives were flourishing my husband had a good job and i was a sales representative in his company then on the 10th of October 2012 my home started to crumble everything was going upside down and my husband left me and my children for a little girl and when i heard of it i was so devastated and when i go to his office to see him he told his boss he doesn't want to see me no more and in the process i lost my job i and my children we were suffering and i was looking for solutions were ever it was to no avail i contacted so many spell casters who could not do anything and i decided to give up until i met a friend on 1st of may and he told me of a powerful spell caster who she met in Africa when she went to execute a project in Africa and she gave me his mail address as{agumaguspelltemple@gmail.com}, and i contacted him on 2nd of may 2013 and he told me many things i didn't know before he let me into many secrets and he cast the spell and told me that on 4th of may my husband was going to come back to me i didn't believe him i had my doubt, and as he promised my husband came begging me on the 4th of may 2013 and i contacted him and told him all that he said came true and he said i was going to get my job back and also get promoted and on the 6th of may i got my job back, i was promoted and i was compensated for the days i was relieved of my work i want to thank the greatest spell caster in the world Dr agumagu he told me he can bring back lost love, lost jobs,promotion lotto win,and many more if we have two men like him today the world will be a good place once again thank you sir, here his is mail if you want to contact him as he will answer you asap.{agumaguspelltemple@gmail.com},hope he help you out too. less