Getting into a relationship requires work, well at least it used to….  there’s all that time to let emotions get involved, everything is new and exciting… It’s like you are a whole new person. Your Happy!
A couple months go by and you’re  starting to see all the little things you never saw before…. all their little habits you never really  knew about.
You’re  no longer screwin’ like jack rabbits, sex has slowed down to medium pace, and you are  starting to see a little more clearly.

Maybe this wasn’t what you thought it would be? A little much going on, and you’re  ready for “space”.
You’re  with them day in and day out, and quite frankly you’re  sick of them…. It doesn’t necessarily mean that you don’t love them or don’t want to be with them… maybe you just need to have time for yourself to be an individual.
You don’t always have to be shoved up someone’s  ass when your in a relationship. You should still have time for you, and do things that you enjoy.

So…. if you’re feeling kind of blah because you forgot what it was like to enjoy something you used to like doing, or are a little independent (like myself) and you just want a moment to yourself… but still want to be in a steady relationship… find ways to tell them without being hurtful. It can be very difficult to tell someone that you’re getting into a funk because you need some alone time..  just don’t be afraid of being vocal about it. For all you know, they might be feeling the same exact way? 

Or if you have just had your fill of that person, it’s probably  time to send em’ packin’.

-Abby D.