One Sided Love
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I personally, have found myself in the position of loving/liking someone that didn’t like me back… No matter how hard I tried to be who I thought they would want me to be…I ultimately failed in more ways than one.
Losing yourself for another never seems to have a happy ending…. I had put so much time and effort into someone who probably wasn’t even worth looking twice at.
We get ourselves into these weird little worlds, where for some reason our brain’s do not function properly and we suddenly turn into putty. And we allow them to do what they want to us, with no repercussion.Â
And it gets even shittier when they know how you feel about them and they take advantage of your kindness, or use you sexually.. Feeling as if they have the upper hand.
If you find yourself in this situation and you know this person has no feelings towards you, then just let it go… Maybe find some activities to occupy your time? It really isn’t worth it in the long run.
Unrequited….
And as much as I hate this, sometimes he’s just not that into you!
A lesson we’ve both learned….
Well, looking back on it, you will see that it was not love. Romantic fantasies, feel good emotions, sexy time, and all the attendant issues. Attachment, neediness, desire, lust, etc.
What role did you play? What role did the other person play? Each person acts as a mirror to the other person in an intimate relationship. That is to let you know the things you need to work on consciousness wise.
The real purpose of any relationship, is as, the mirror, in which to see yourself clearly. That’s it. To help you recognize your attachments and sense addictions that bind you… hold you back from being free. From attaining liberation and experiencing the grace, love, light, life that comes from the source of all that is. Which is accessed within.
Cheers!
CBBMAB